This week flew by! I can't even believe it is March already! I was busy with lots of following up, lots of flower and vintage inspiration research and LOTS of proposal drafting. I sent them out like a mama bird pushes her babies out of the nest...I hope that some of them come back to me! Here's a little of what kept this wedding planning mama busy this week:
1. Flowers Flowers Flowers: I feel like I am up to my eyes in flowers right now. Working on the design concepts for two of my couples now, I am constantly adding flowers and information to my lists and pinboards. Also, I am helping a friend out with the flowers for her wedding at the end of this month and this week the basic plan for this friend-job changed drastically. I was juggling ideas, research, contact, and budget for these flowers and I learned so much in the process. I also met a new vendor friend! Yo, from Array of Flowers, was an amazing contact to make. His tiny shop is literally across the street from my house and he creates beautiful arrangements in addiction to selling wholesale flowers to businesses like Allure. I know I will be working with Yo on future projects (so knowledgeable, so helpful!). And I will also be heading to Yo for my own flowers. I'm going in today, actually! I need some hydrangeas on my kitchen table stat.
2. Office Hours. I feel like I am working all the time...I have a 2 year old and I have a babysitter that comes once a week to help. In the 4 hours that she is with Joey, I swear I do a full day's work. The to-do list I have to catch up on by the time she gets here every week is daunting, to say the least. Between my son, my husband, my house, my work...you know the rant...I have very little time for anything! I love my wedding work, I love the business that I am able to have and still be a 'stay-at-home' mom, and I am proud of what I have going on. But I am on my computer until 2am most nights and weekends don't mean anything anymore. So I have decided to try to maintain a better balance. I need to set boundaries for myself and for my clients. If they see that I am emailing them a response at 2am, I'm afraid they will think I am always available to them, which just isn't possible. (Or fair, or right, or sane!) Every profession has 'office' hours in some respect, mine does too! I just don't adhere to them because I think I can't justify having set office hours since I am working on things all day long...but not 'full time'. I'm a full time mom, doing my best to do it all. The only person who can always get a hold of me 'after hours' is Joey. So, New Allure Hours: 8am-10pm, Monday-Saturday. Ha! See, I'm trying, ok?
3. Styled Shoot! Allure is teaming up with Kaella Lynn Events and Meg Perotti for a styled shoot. My first one to produce and coordinate! My first one to be a part of at all! I'm super excited about this...Kaella and I have been teasing you for a while about our big 'project' coming up and this is it. Details are still top secret, but I can tell you it is going to be bright and beautiful and inspiring. Not just in the pretty details and fun ideas, but also in it's inherent message. It's been a lot of work to come up with it and set it up, and Kaella is working hard on the styling and design. I'm so happy with everyone involved. I can't wait to do it (mid March) and I super duper can't wait to see the final product of Meg's!